Sunday, July 22, 2012

Mandir Darshan


Date - 1st July 2012
We hired a vehicle for this pilgrim trip and started off early around 5.30pm from Kalyan. Rain gods were in our favour and so, we didn’t have much pouring from the top and reached Trimbakeshwar pretty early around 8.30 am

Trimbakeshwar Temple - One of the 12 Jyotirlings

First, we headed towards a water tank revered as a sacred bathing place, the Kushavart kund.

 
Kushavart kund is considered the symbolic origin of the river Godavari.

After that, we headed towards the Shiva Temple in trimbakeshwar

Then, we started off for Shani Shignapur which was approximately 4hrs journey from Trimbakeshwar.

Shani Shingnapur


The shrine for Shani consists of a five and a half feet high black rock installed on an open-air platform, which symbolizes the god Shani. A Trishula (trident) is placed along the side of the image and a Nandi (bull) image is on the south side. In front are the small images of Shiva and Hanuman.
Shingnapur is also famous for the fact that no house in the village has doors, only door frames. Despite this, no theft is reported in the village
 

We bought some puja material ( oil and some other stuff to be worshipped to Shani dev )
Note - Be cautions of agents (of stalls) approaching you as you drive to the place. Their sole objective is to sell puja material worth Rs. 25 at Rs. 150-550

After that, we went to Shirdi and visited Sai Baba temple.  We returned back and reached Kalyan around midnight.


3rd July 2012 – Mumbai temple trip

Titwala – Siddhivinayak Mahaganapati Temple

We had hired a vehicle for the Mumbai trip and started off around 10am towards Tiwala to visit the Siddhivinayak Mahaganapati Temple.
The place is steeped in ancient legend and the temple is frequented by a very large number of devotees on account of the belief that separated married couples could be united and marriages of desired people could be fixed easily if the Ganesha image installed in the temple is worshipped with devotion.


After that, we went to visit the Shree Siddhivinayak Ganapati Mandir in Prabhadevi and then the Mumba devi temple in Bhuleshwar which is near Marine Lines station.

Post the temple visits, we went to see the Gateway of India.

Gateway of India

 


The Gateway of India is a monument built during the British Raj in Mumbai. Located on the waterfront in the Apollo Bunder area in South Mumbai, the monument overlooks the Arabian Sea. 
 

Then, finally, we returned back home and reached Kalyan around 10pm.




Lifetime Memorable trip to Delhi


The once in a lifetime occasion that happens with almost everyone (unless you are planning to remain un…… ) happened with me on 26th June 2012. We started our train journey on 24th June from Bandra towards Delhi. We had been planning for this from last 1 month and lots of shopping was being done almost every day. As we know, preparations go on till the last day and it actually never ends. So, ideally, we were loaded with lots of stuff during our train journey. It was a smooth journey and we got good companions to pass time and a small boy who could dance and play around which made the journey even more interesting.
Finally, we reached Nizamuddin station on 25th June 2012 @ 1.30pm . My father-in-law ( from now onwards referred to as ‘papaji’ ) and my mother-in-law ( heedless to say , ‘mummyji’  from now onwards)  had come to greet us at the railway station. We reached Hotel Hanuwant and had heavy lunch.



Preparations were in full flow and everyone was gearing up for the big day.  In the evening was sangeet function and engagement ceremony.

My in-laws entering the function hall along with my wife



Our complete family (elder sister,mummy,wify , ?? , papa, younger sister – from left to right ) 
 


My Delhi wali family ( papaji, wife, myself , mummyji and brother-in-law Shubham – from left to right)

 


Ring ceremony –
 

After that we had cake cutting ceremony



Post the cake cutting ceremony, we had a DJ dance party




Post the dancing, we had a sumptuous feast

Next day – 26th June 2012 – afternoon
Tilak ceremony
This function involves gifts being given from the girl’s side and most important, the bride is not allowed in this function  :(

Entering the hall with my sisters
 


Gifts being imparted
 
The ceremony got finished in an hour and after that as usual, we had a grand feast.

Evening – 26th June 2012
The Ashoka
The dais was all set for the marriage ceremony.



Mandap
  
 The decorations were simply awesome.

I started my journey on a chariot towards the hotel


Both the fathers helped me to get down from the chariot

Poor chap desperately waiting for his wife
 



And there she comes …
 



I realized later that my wife is a good sports player based on her throw of the garlands around my neck
 


My family
 


My Delhi wali family
 



My dear friend  Kaams ( on extreme left)
 

There was DJ dance party going around but we were in no position to dance

After the reception, we had a grand dinner.

I hope this continues …
 





The smiling couple
 

Finally, the marriage mandap (time – 1 am)


My dear sister tying the knot
 

Pav-pujan ceremony






Phere
 

Sindoor ceremony
 

Getting blessings from all elders
 


After the marriage, my wife sat in a doli and was being carried by her brothers towards the car


Being a good chivalrous husband, I am opening the car door for my wife

And finally we went back to our respective places (my wife to her house and we went to the hotel).
Note: We don’t have immediate vidaai ( gauna ) on our side and so the girl stays in her house till vidaai ( gauna ) function which happened after 3 days( 29th July 2012 ).

Overall, this Delhi trip will always be memorable for all of us and I am extremely delighted on having such a wonderful extended family.





Faldaan (Baraksha ceremony )


My Faldaan ceremony happened on 25th April 2012 in Indigo Hotel @ Kalyan.  For those of who are not aware about this ceremony, it is a formal commitment from both the parties (boy’s side and girl’s side). It is also used to decide upon the date for marriage and other functions. This function happens on the guy’s side and family members from the girl’s side are invited.  Please note that the girl (bride) is not allowed in this function

 



Some more pics

 


One of the best part about this function was that I now have one loving dadaji







And a gift with lovely message from my wife